a 4-week yoga series ft. the mūlādhāra chakra 🌹
give it to me 🥵
men court her,
compete for her, and
fight to open doors for her…
she is proposed to,
provided for, and inspires
deep loyalty in her man…
she magnetizes men
and money easily, and she
lives a life of luxury…
she is open,
unbelievably receptive,
and intoxicatingly sweet…
dripping in artistry,
luscious femininity,
erotic beauty…
with a rich and fulfilling
creative life, where she lives
out her soul purpose…
all while being deeply cherished,
well-fucked, and worshipped by
her devoted Warrior King
it’s not a secret, my love.
the erotic aliveness that penetrates her entire life.
(and her willingness to be annihilated
by the cosmic cock of Life)
dying to herself, over and over again…
so that she can birth again
into something alive.
we’re not here for the hot little fling
that dies as the seasons change.
we’re not here for the marriage that
dries up as quickly as the children come.
we’re not here to contort into someone we’re not
under strict dogmatic ‘rules’ of how we ‘should be’.
we’re here for deep, unshakable connection.
we're here for genuine, vulnerable expression.
we’re here for knees-in-the-dirt devotion.
in service of divine union
a journey of repair with mortal men and the holy masculine
our superstar lineup
potent teachers of somatics + the feminine
Sufey Bokman
lover, mother, cherished wife
Happily married to the love of her life, Sufey is a beloved wife, wild-schooling mama, and beloved teacher of the Feminine Arts. She shares scintillating, jaw-dropping stories from her own dark journey of rupture back into full repair with the masculine.
Internationally celebrated for her playful devotion, raw depth of expression, and wildly creative essence, Sufey curates deeply loving communities for feminine practitioners on their journeys of erotic awakening. With eighteen years of experience guiding yoga teacher trainings, plant medicine ceremonies, and soma to soul energy healing, Sufey weaves joy, hope, story and spirit into the journey of érōs.
Christina Louise
femininity & union mentor
Christina Louise is a devotional Feminine Arts and polarity-focused Union mentor who supports women in restoring their relationship to their Feminine core on all levels. This includes healing their relationship to the Masculine & the Father, reclaiming their birthright of embodied surrender, unlocking their feminine magnetism, releasing old somatic/spiritual & energetic trauma, opening their wombs, & awakening their life and love force via heart & pelvic floor & more.
She is a very energetic & catalyzing practitioner & soul midwife deeply trained in the healing arts, alchemy & embodiment - but is most deeply passionate about the restoration of Union and devotional femininity, as well as the Return of women to their most fertile & life-giving embodied Feminine essence via the awakening of their womb consciousness.
Martine De Luna
courtship & marriage coach
Martine De Luna is a Wife and Mother, and has also been a women's coach for over a decade — because she has always had a heart for the feminine woman. Working in the realms of teaching as well as in church ministry; eventually being initiated into motherhood and being a 'mompreneur' and mentor to other moms, Martine often witnessed that while women could succeed in business, they could also get trapped in operating like men. Martine supports clients in realigning their perceptions about life, shifting their internal blocks (paradigms) and re-authoring helpful and powerful beliefs and feminine embodiment, so they can live from their authentic (and biological) feminine nature.
Martine has been married to her first love, Ton, for 15 years, and they have two wonderful children who are home-schooled and thriving.
Elena Dominguez
nervous system expert +
somatic psychologist
Elena is a highly skilled and sought after somatic psychologist and practicing therapist. Author of the brilliantly functional book, RETURN TO RHYTHM, her grounded wisdom and practices for regulation have served countless families in healing their bodies and nervous systems.
With over 13 years in the field as a neuromuscular massage therapist, energy healer, somatic therapist (and as a loving mama of two!) she brings a deliciously hilarious and down-to-earth energy to the érōs field.
Premraj Julien
somatic experiencing therapist +
path of love facilitator
A true master of the nervous system, Premraj is a pillar of support and safety in repair within ourselves and with the masculine. His grounded, steady, and incredibly kind presence provides an powerful stabilization to our container of creative expression.
Premraj offers extremely potent yet do-able somatic practices that guide us in honoring our needs, establishing clear boundaries, and expanding our nervous system capacity to hold the full spectrum of growing aliveness in our bodies.
aloha, queen.
my name is sufey.
i’m a cum-slurping, booty-shaking, and deeply
Beloved Queen to my King — my husband,
and the father of our darling little daughter.
and
my saturn (the planet of Time,
limitation, and er, painful lessons) is in
the 7th house of Marriage and Relationship,
which means…
i’ve been through the wringer in my love life.
(and boy do i have a story or two for ya!)
i spent years of my life collapsed on the bathroom
floor weeping about the state of my love life…
unable to understand why i just kept fucking it all up…
why i kept attracting sadistic, unavailable men…
why i couldn’t hold a healthy relationship
no matter how much i thought i desired it…
and why i was unable to have what i really
wanted even after finding a really good man…
i spent years hating men
and blaming them for
the state of my life
before i finally looked the bullet in the eye…
and i was shocked at what i saw.
i was so deeply programmed by the
culture of man-hating and man-shaming
that i completely lost sight of my own deeper Truth.
the truth of Love…
the truth of Devotion…
the truth of érōs…
i wasn’t meant to be a man-hating bitch —
dry-as-a-desert, impenetrable and alone,
with nobody but my own bitter stories
and my self-aggrandizing suffering.
damn, sufey.
i thought to myself one day,
collapsed, once again, and weeping —
you really are addicted to your own drama, aren’t you?
and i had to make a choice to break free.
this journey is most definitely not for you if…
⟢ you are addicted to your own painbody — and you’re not willing to break free from your own looping stories.
⟢ you hate men, you ‘don’t need no man’, and you’re perfectly fine being single and alone for the rest of your life.
⟢ you don’t believe you have any agency over your life, and you prefer to cycle in perpetual victim mode, moaning about how life isn’t fair to you.
⟢ you aren’t willing to look at some deep and hard truths — and dive to the depths of your own shadows, blind spots, and deeper programming.
but if this touches a layer of truth in you…
⟢ you are willing to devote yourself to the deeper harmonics of embodied M/F energetics (and a lifelong quest of relational mastery).
⟢ you desire to be deeply cherished, treasured, pleasured, and— dare i say— worshipped by your man as you find God in Him.
⟢ you trust, or are willing to trust in, your co-creational prowess, and desire support in catalyzing and grounding your reality.
⟢ you are ready to claim your place as the exquisite, enchanting, and deeply Beloved leading lady in your érōs-dripping Soul Union.
is your birthright, Beautiful One.
if i can heal on this journey, so can you.
if i can have the marriage of my dreams, so can you.
if the ten thousand women i’ve worked with can
journey back home to their joy, their érōs,
and their aliveness… so can you.
